I’ve come to the point of view that all 50 states should change “marriage laws” to “revokable civil union” laws. Governments do nothing to determine if the spouses-to-be are emotionally ready for lifelong commitment: Governments do nothing to encourage spouses stay together. Licenses without tests/teaching/encouragement are shams. Actual marriages are part of religion and moral codes. As soon as governments decided that adultery was no longer a civil crime- it gave up any pretense that government was deciding what a marriage was.